Like, looking back at your previous gf’s, do they all have something in common?

they’re all women.

[quote author=“antman22”]they’re all women.

You know, I did notice that. I thought it was a coincidence…

:o

:lol:

This is going to sound really weird, but for some weird reason in high school, blonde haired/ blue eyed girls with big boobs were the predominant looking girls that were attracted to me, but its not my style.  All my girlfriends (including my current girlfriend) have been brown hair/ brown eyes/ round face, which are the girls that I am mostly attracted to.

Blonde, blue eyed girls are attractive, but they usually aren’t the ones I am attracted to. They just look cute, while brunettes with green eyes or brown eyes (and usually a little shorter than myself) are absolutely stunning. Come to think of it, I have never dated a blonde, ever… hmm.

EDIT: I take that back, I dated one freshman year of high school. Hehe, she was blonde blue eyed, too. But I think I dated her because I was attracted to her brunette, brown eyed friend (who was russian!). My last girlfriend was korean. Geez, I date exotic women.

But I think I dated her because I was attracted to her brunette, brown eyed friend

WTF!  Sheesh, you give guys a bad name.

[quote author=“HectorGearLive”]But I think I dated her because I was attracted to her brunette, brown eyed friend

WTF!  Sheesh, you give guys a bad name.

[quote author=“Tighr”]I dated one freshman year of high school…I think I dated her because I was attracted to her brunette, brown eyed friend.

I said I was a freshman in high school. I was 15, kids were dumb back then. Besides, it was one of those “hey i’ll see you between classes” type relationships. I never had a “real” relationship until I was 18.

I plead the fifth!

Plead the fif? one, two, three, four, Fif??? The fizif!!!

hmmm// looks at the question and then at the responses.. hmmm..Q:Are certain kinds of females attracted to you?

my answer: lots of Hispanics

I’ve gone out with two girls my whole life, I’m with one of them right now (Though I’m getting out of it pretty soon haha) and the first one was half mexican/vietnamese and my current g/f is blonde hair blue eyes like swedish or something i dunno, I don’t really have a preference with women because I’ve hooked up with alot of girls but the most common feature was the fact that they were all hot.  😛

that is an excellent reason… that is how I choose my men

that is an excellent reason… that is how I choose my men

:o

I choose my women based on awesomeness of personality! They just so happened to physically meet a certain criteria set, as well.

Most of the girls that like/liked me were/are short. Like, I’m talking half a foot difference.

i see alot of asian women looking at me :roll:  but i dont know what to do back 😢

What I do when a girl looks at me, is look back at them all “mysterious” and smile. And just walk away. Sometimes they come running up to me.

You’re scary.

Recently no women have been attracted to me…kinda sucks. Usually introverted shy girls are attracted to me which is nice because I’m the same. The hard thing is that obviously they’re introverted so it’s hard to find them.  😢

hmmmmm. lets see.
only similarity i can think of is both of my gf’s liked me because of my personality. So people who look for good personalities? haha

I don’t really know what type of guys (yeah we’re changing this up) are attracted to me.  I don’t think i’ve ever gone out with a guy that’s blond haired… that’s probably because I’m attracted to brown hair and blue/green eyes.  I never really that even though it was my taste that I ever ended up with guys like that… then i realized all my boyfriends have been brown haired… It’s just i’ve never really looked at a guy that i’ve been attracted to and been like “ok he’s got brown hair blue eyes.. he’s cute”.. like it’s just something sort of unconcious.  I’m attracted to blond haired guys too.. I’ve just never ended up with one.  Also as weird as this is.. I tend to be attracted to guys that don’t drink.. and it’s not like they tell me they don’t.. it’s like i’ll really like a guys looks and personality and then he’ll be like “oh yeah i don’t drink”.. it’s weird.. but good.

Lately, a lot of random weird guys in Washington Square Park have tried to pick me up.. haha.. Me and my friend decided to give our first try at a club last night (which ended up being a complete bust and we didn’t even go in) but we were all dolled up.. and we got a lot of comments from weird guys.  One homeless guy yelled something at me.. i’m not sure what he said.. something like i had fat hips.. it was sooo weird.

Do you think it’s true that women are attracted to the “bad boy” type?  Looking back on it, it appears to be true for me.

ya i think this is true for the most part. most girls i’ve noticed enjoy going out with the a$$hole/bad boy/toolbag type of guy. not my style though, which usually ends up putting me in the “friend” bin. i’m over it though, i’d rather be a nice guy and live with it, cuz i know i’ll probably be the one they refer to as boss later down the line.

as for girls that are attracted to me, i guess to easily put it, its a lot like Harold’s (from Harold and Kumar) situation. I’m a twinkie. The asian girls are attracted to me, but 99% of them I’m not attracted to. The ones that I do find attractive, are usually going out with some “powered by honda, my muffler is bigger than yours, armani exchange is all i wear” type of guys. I’m too white to go for that image. I’m more attracted to white girls. Its cuz of my environment though, I’ve been raised in an middle/upper class very white community. I’m used to seeing pretty white chicks, lol.

Heres my take:

Girls like guys with confidence.  Since meathead bunsholes don’t really think about things they do or say, their confidence is pretty high.  They just don’t care, about the girl, about anything really, just themselves.  Its annoying, but they have the confidence.  And because of this nice guys tend to lack confidence, second guess themselves, and over-analyze.  Yeah.  I dont think its the jerks so much, just the dudes that really don’t think past the surface.

Does that make sense or am I way off?

Ya, I agree with the confidence thing, but I’d rather call it cockiness/self-pretentiousness (not a word, but you get what i mean).

In addition, the meatheads have a tendency to make fun of others to make themselves appear better, I’ve seen it happen at parties all the time when two guys(who are usually cool with each other) are trying to impress some girl, and one guy will just spend most of the time belittling the other, just to act cool and somehow impress the girl. the crappy part is that guy won’t do a thing about it. amazing what a pretty girl will make guys do.

Yeah…I dont know, because there are plenty of nice guys with confidence (not cockiness) that can get girls easily.  Also I just figure if a girl wants a lame dude, she can go for a lame dude.  Whatever, I wouldnt want a girl that would rather go for some cheesy jerkass than a nice guy.