okay well here is my whole situation…

right now me and my gf are on a break i guess.

this is how it all plays out…
right now she is going through a really rough time… her family left her alone on her birthday and didnt get her anything absolutely nothing. Umm her parents treat her like crap as well as her oldest brother and youngest brother. His second oldest brother is the only one she likes and they are good with eachother but now he is being sent away to boarding school so now she has no one in her family to talk to about anything. He still might not be sent though but recently he got back into drugs which is also a problem. O and her grandma the one person she talked to about everything and anything whenever she could is dieing and had 4 strokes and cant remember who she is at all anymore. Like her grandma was the person she would leave the home to talk to when she was having a rough time and stuff. So thats her problems..

our problem with our relationship is that we never really get to see eachother that much maybe once or twice a week and she says it sucks for her because she cant stand not being able to see me all the often. (she has a very busy scedule) anyhow right now she said it be best to like take a break because she has too much stuff going on to handle our reltionship problems at the moment…

should i be worried about her breaking up with me and i dunno what to do with her… like if all the stuff she is having happened to me i seriously dunno what i do.

Yeah, so with my ex. i was on “break” status for about 5 months before she officially ended it. She said break status meant that she was busy with school and stuff and since it was a long distance relationship she needed to focus on school and stuff. Later I found out that break status really meant that she met a guy back home.

hmph uh oh.

Yeah, when I went on a “break” with my last boyfriend, it was with the intentions of breaking up with him…...... :( I was the one initiating the break, by the way

that really sux to hear man. whenever stuff deals with family, its never fun. hopefully this break isn’t similar to tighr’s break, but its def. something to consider.

if its truely cuz of her family problems, then ya, give her time to sort things out. tell her that you’re there for support if she needs it. i’ve seen relationships where things get really bad, cuz they are together, the girl is stressed out with problems(family, school, life, etc), and she ends up taking it out on the guy. the guy gets pissed, arguments ensue, and so fourth. so i guess what i’m trying to say is, be there, but don’t be there. you can still talk to her and such, but if she needs some space to sort things out, let her be, just let her know that you’re there.

yeah man thats what i was thinking. Thnx