Definte no. You ask them to somewhere first, thats too much pressure on em.
I agree. It seems cute now to just straight up ask her, but if you ease her into it, she’ll actually be more willing to say yes 😊 People date still!! It is not a lost art! Also, make her feel special too. It always means more to me, at least, when a guy does that to me 😊
Well, as for making her feel special, I think I do that to alot of girls. My ex used to tell me everyday that I used to make her feel special all the time. She says I still do (in a friendly way, cuz we’re just friends now)
[quote author=“Acrylic”]Well, as for making her feel special, I think I do that to alot of girls. My ex used to tell me everyday that I used to make her feel special all the time. She says I still do (in a friendly way, cuz we’re just friends now)
aww.. I bet you are a sweetheart… don’t grow out of it.. there are too many jerks out there
[quote author=“gohan_bcc1”]i dunno if you were a girl and a guy just asked you out without doing anything with you it wouldnt work out for me.
It seriously works—well i guess once you get older…I keep forgetting that *most* of the people here are still in High School…I guess it’s a little different than being 20-something; a lot of females my age actually would like a guy to be straight forward instead of beating around the bush…grab the bull by the horns so too speak.
I saw her today, but just couldnt do it. I told her best friend, but she said she didnt know.
But yeah, next time I see her, I gotta do it. My friends are gonna be helping me out, by forcing me to do it. Like one friend will say “Hey, Nick has something to say to you” and run away, or him and a couple other guys would be like “Nick has something to tell you” and chant “Nicl nick, nick!!!!” And help me out.
Definite no on the girlfriend part is right, dinner and a movie is always nice, depending on cash, and what ya wanna do. Its always nice to be able to drive around alone too…if ya know what I mean. Yea but after youve spent a night with her just ask if ya wanna hang out again sometime. DO NOT say will you be my girlfriend now…thats just a-w-k-w-a-r-d.
PS - Another thing I found that was fun to do was just go hang out somewhere where no one will bother you and just sit and talk…Its better than it sounds. Whenever I used to go to the beach in high school I would always take some girl with me and just sit on the beach for hours at night….talking drinking and other stuff….yea
[quote author=“PhateX1337”]Definite no on the girlfriend part is right, dinner and a movie is always nice, depending on cash, and what ya wanna do. Its always nice to be able to drive around alone too…if ya know what I mean. Yea but after youve spent a night with her just ask if ya wanna hang out again sometime. DO NOT say will you be my girlfriend now…thats just a-w-k-w-a-r-d.
PS - Another thing I found that was fun to do was just go hang out somewhere where no one will bother you and just sit and talk…Its better than it sounds. Whenever I used to go to the beach in high school I would always take some girl with me and just sit on the beach for hours at night….talking drinking and other stuff….yea
I dont have a car yet, so I can’t really go places unless I go to like a football game with her, or something.
Play the guitar for her…that #### will melt a girl’s heart, especially if you can sing, but if your voice sounds like shxt then just play the guitar and then ur in like a dirty sock plus you gotta be semi-attractive :love:
[quote author=“Attica”]Play the guitar for her…that **** will melt a girl’s heart, especially if you can sing, but if your voice sounds like shxt then just play the guitar and then ur in like a dirty sock plus you gotta be semi-attractive :love:
Well, I dot think I can sing. And I wont bring my guitar and amp to school. O_O’
and I dunno if I look good. Have others tell u. I dunno
[quote author=“Acrylic”]Okay, I know, most of you will say :“DONT ASK PEOPLE ONTHE INTERNET FOR HELP!!!”
Well, I am. Just a simple thing. Whats the best way to ask a girl out? Cuz I wanna ask this girl out tomorrow. I am 80% sure she likes me. Shes hot, she’d be a perfect model one day. But anyways, whats the best way to ask a girl out?
(I’m 15, so no erm, inappropriate stuff)
theres no secret to it. Just do what you do everyday with her and when its the right time just pop the question out unexpectively. The only tip ill give you is make her interested in you, so start off with a good conversation
Wow, to be young again. While dating in high school was fun, its waaayyy too much work! So much drama, so much stuff going on. And its really about the “title” to be able to claim you have a girlfriend. College (and after college, I imagine) is much better.
