i was talking to her and she was telling me whats been bothering her… and ill i can say is it makes me quite sad and i really do feel so bad for her. I wanna do something for her to make her feel a little bit better i know it wont mean alot but anything to get her happy for a bit is worthwhile for me.

well, I dunno what’s out in cananda, but you could alwyas have a nice candlelight dinner, where you cook the meal. a picnic? flowers are usually a good thing to do, although i’ve known a few girls that hate them…

write her a poem/song/haiku/limmerick?
come up with some way to just have alone time, where both of you can just sit, chill, talk, cuddle, etc etc. make a day of whatever she wants to do, i dunno. go shopping with her? get her a teddy bear? go to one of those build-a-bear joints and make a bear together or sumthin.

i dunno your gf, so its sorta hard for me to say “do this, i know she’ll love it!” i can only give u general stuff to work with. hope it helps, if i can think of other stuff i’ll be back.

What I would do in that kind of situation would be to be with her more then normal, that would probably show her that you care about her and it might make her feel better.

k flowers and more time.. thats a start.

the beach at night is really romantic.. i like the ideas above too.

and the little things are really great too.. like my old boyfriend i would just love when he did random little tiny things.. like just randomly give me a big hug or randomly kiss my forehead..

Also if your girlfriend likes a certain restaurant or event.. you can ask her if she wants to go do an everyday thing and then actually take her to the favorite place.  Like say “oh do you wanna go grab something to eat at the diner” and then really take her to her favorite italian restaurant or a place she really likes.  Another little thing is.. say she likes starbucks or a certain candy bar.. just every once in a while get her that thing and then give it to her when you see her.. just to say that you were thinking of her

dont go all out to make her happy becuase the simpliest thing can make her happy agian like asking how her day was and giving her flowers and candy everyda

Dinner, and a little gift, like scented candles or bubble-bath gel.

jewelry… that always makes me happy.. but for a guy on a budget how about stroll together and a poem.. that would be sweet

yeah definately.. i mean big nice things are amazing every once and a while.. but the little things really do make girls feel good.. at least me.

i know little things help to i just wanna do both here at this moment… cause the stuff thats been happening is extremely bad for her… its not like your typical o shes been having bad days. Way worse. I will take this all into consideration when i see her next. THnx